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Recently a friend suggested that being able to choose partners based on preferences about sexual likes and dislikes was one of the priveleges (surely) of being an adult.

At that point I was a lot more disinclined to look for detail about the sexual preferences of potential partners, or offer detail about mine. I felt that it was something you'd sort out later, and work out together.

I've changed my view.

(To some extent. If nothing else, I've realised there are some things that any potential partner should know about mine before they get too keen.)

Of course, I still face the ongoing risk of overloading people with TMI all at once. For better or worse, it seems to be my style. Guile is beyond me. As is good timing.

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sabethea
Jul. 21st, 2013 02:57 pm (UTC)
I'm a big fan of just saying things rather than having them turn up at inopportune moments. I veer more and more towards the TMI side as I go along: it's much less stressful to have it all out there from the start and then no one can complain they weren't warned.
pondhopper
Jul. 21st, 2013 05:29 pm (UTC)
I'd rather be up front and open as much as possible. Though one has to observe certain rules of discretion sometimes.
:)
fluidsparkles
Jul. 21st, 2013 10:47 pm (UTC)
Much Bettter Move Than Having To ferret Or weed out Unwanted False Positives. Sadddly I gave up cos i'm um an Outlier statistically among outliers even . LOL

Best of luck hunting.
dragonsally
Jul. 22nd, 2013 01:41 am (UTC)
Its a good idea, and one I'd possibly employ now. (As opposed to when I was younger and just went with the flow)
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